We all are guilty of allowing ourselves to be used. What amuses me is we get angry at the person we allowed to use us when we finally realize we have been manipulated in the worst way. We are aware of the intent from the other person but are we expecting them to reciprocate? That’s where the problem begins! If you decide to help someone or give them your heart don’t expect the same in return because that’s a choice you made. Be angry with yourself especially if you never told them how you felt, what you wanted in return or whether they were on the same page. If they don’t feel the same as you or at least see a future with you do not waste your time. You are not a cat therefore you do not have nine lives.