There are some folks that do everything in their power to make you not like them.
There have been people that I actually liked but for whatever reason they despised me.
If I never met you how in the world can I determine that I don’t like you?
Well, it’s done to me all the dang time. They see me and judge me without getting to know who I am and they don’t like me? Honestly, who cares besides they don’t pay my bills, feed me nor provide clothing? But it really puzzles me about how they determined that they aren’t fond of me without ever becoming acquainted. Hearsay plays a huge part most of the time. If you allow someone else to help you form an opinion about another person you never met you are a complete idiot.
In some cases the biased opinion of someone may be indeed true! However, everyone deserves a fair chance before you claim you don’t like someone. “I don’t like that bytch, I don’t know why, I just don’t” heard that many times and you know what that’s one sick puppy who says something so silly.
Why would you want enemies on purpose? When you ignore them and continue to be who you are never allowing them to make you act out of character is not an easy tasks sometimes.
You really want to curse them out but you know that ladies shouldn’t curse says Daddy :). You know that two wrongs don’t make a right says Grandma. Kill them with kindness says Mommy. Turn the other cheek says Jesus.
You must understand that people who are miserable and unhappy with themselves find some sort of satisfaction in irritating, upsetting others and gossiping.
Feel sorry for them and most importantly pray for them. Continue to be the Happy You!
this is what i say about my ex-husband and his wife. i feel terribly sorry for them – why they feel the need to make my life miserable at the expense of our children is beyond me. i will never get it and honestly it is a waste of my time to even try to understand. so i pity them.
They can’t be happy that’s obvious. You never involve children with nonsense.
i know – and i have to defend their actions to my kids – i refuse to drop to their level of being jerks. (not always – fortunately they are getting older to see through the cr*p themselves)