If a relationship is painful and you have to constantly struggle with keeping it alive then you are wasting not only your time but theirs as well.
I never understood why people feel like they have to cry, fight, scream and hurt in order to have a meaningful relationship. I often hear people say, “We have a history” ok, that’s great but how good is that history?
If they don’t hit you, call you dreadful names or act like a jealous manic they don’t care?
Far from the truth, it’s the exact opposite. People who love you will set you free because they realize you are not property and will respect your decision to end the unhealthy relationship.
It is impossible to not have disagreements and become angry with your partner. However, the way you resolve your issues is when the real test comes into play. Love shouldn’t hurt and it surly should not drain your spirit.
Love is holding your best friend’s hand waking up every morning to warm smiles thinking of how you can make each other happier. Love is a 50/50 spilt and if you aren’t there in the beginning work towards it. You need someone that will at the minimum meet you half way. There should never be only person putting in all the work while building a relationship.
Love is respect, loyalty and admiration as well as humbling in a sense that it has become a rarity these days.
Love should be easy and sweet taking you to a place that is pure euphoria detaching you from reality so much that you have to pull each other back.
Love does not ask questions it just exists and blossoms each day with a foundation that no man can destroy.
Wise words: easy to say, not so easy to do. Fears, egos, inhibitions, society all get in the way. The best most folk can manage is a comfortable “fit”.
Another option is to stay single…seems easy for my sister and she’s happy…beats an awful relationship now that’s easy enough.
i gots the single thing going. I am good:)
Sometimes that’s best for now at least…
what a lovely post you have here. thanks for your opinion on this.
Thank you for reading and most importantly leaving a wonderful encouraging comment!
Thanks Sis 💋❤