There is nothing wrong with wanting nice things and having a fat bank account BUT:
Don’t waste your life chasing The American Dream that can turn your life into a nightmare with debt, missing out on you children growing up, leaving an angry (divorce) spouse at home. You must make to time to live LIFE while you are on your path of achieving great things. You get one shot at life so chase after peace, joy, love, happiness and a peace of mind.
Don’t concern yourself with what others will say about you when you want to live or do things a certain way that makes you happy. Never put your life on hold for anyone because you will look up and that time you lost is gone forever. You can work on moving forward together!
Remember that everything you worked so hard for will be left behind for others to enjoy that didn’t lift a finger to earn but if that’s what you want great!