Exactly what is it that you want in a man or woman that will make you happy and satisfied enough to settle down? Do they have to make loads of money or can you build together?
The biggest mistake we make is having unrealistic standards; that are mostly physical.
We almost always neglect to take in account the most important aspect of a person and that’s their heart. Looks are important but we must remember that outer appearances can fade over time.
Here today gone tomorrow holds true to many phases in our life.
A physical attraction is what baited us; in most cases at least. But what if they have a cute laugh, or you like the way they curl their lip up when they smile?
If you had to choose three things you wanted in a person what would it be in the exact order that you list those qualities?
Think long and hard before you decide what those three qualities would be? For example, loyalty falls under not cheating, being your best friend, will protect and defend you etc.
My first quality would be that they love themselves which allows them to be loved and to love others.
Second quality would be a person who has a spiritual foundation and respects other religious systems.
Third quality would be loyalty. I chose these three because it’s so broad and has so many other things that fall under each category.
I don’t need him to be perfect since I am not perfect. I need my man to be just perfect for me.