Who Do You Love More?

We all must have standards…That goes for both Men and Women.

In this life we don’t honestly get second chances we just waste our time and hope for a better future and/or outcome.

I refuse to put my time into anything that has no return.

Fear keeps you from finding true happiness.

Most people don’t take marriage seriously and it is rather frightening. How you start a marriage is how it will end.

You settle because you don’t think you are good enough to find someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved.

Don’t lose yourself in a relationship to the point that you neglect yourself only to find out later that the same sacrifices you made will not be reciprocated.

I know people personally; that knew their partner was cheating on them and still stayed. I don’t know if that’s being strong or weak…I don’t know if that is just stupid or they really love the other person more than they love themselves.

We all lie…but when you become an habitual liar it damages trust beyond repair. We all lie but when you lie to someone you are supposed to love that is NOT the same thing.

I really don’t know and I won’t judge them; I just can’t tolerate the same things others do because I love myself too much. Is it wrong to love yourself more?

I don’t know about you but I love myself more…

Straight from the Heart, Patrice
“You Can’t Tell Me How to Feel”

***Remember to search your own soul for specific answers.***
I give advice based on my personal experiences…
I sincerely thank everyone for reading my blog and sharing your views on life.
All of my posts are personal lessons I’ve learned through my “personal” walk and life experiences.
The purpose of my blog is to encourage others and in no way will I ever directly tell anyone to do anything because the decision is yours and yours alone.
I advise this does not mean you make a decision based solely on what is communicated to you via my blog. My responses are based on “What I would do” if I were you; based on my personal experiences.
In the end, the decision is totally yours and something you will have to live with not me. If someone told you to jump off the Brooklyn Bridge, would you? If so, stop reading my blog. Thank you!
Straight from my Heart, Patrice

4 thoughts on “Who Do You Love More?

  1. I agree a lie can do some damage to a relationship but we all lie everyday and don’t even realize it with that being said we all are habitual liars. Example a co worker tells you some thing about some and than tells you not to say anything than some comes and say did you hear about so an so you say no not even realize you told a lie. Some people do that multiple times a day so that make a lot of us habitual liars. My husband use to tell me all kinds if lies and yes I would find out the truth each and every time so I said ok I’m teach him a lesson so I did. To make a long story short you can’t pay him to tell a lie. I understand you blogger and I know how you feel it hurts. Take a look back at your relationship I bet you lied to your man about something at if he find out he would be pissed as f_ _ _k. As men and women let’s stop the lies and tell the truth cause no one wants to be hurt or heart broken over a lie.


    • Hello Queen,
      It’s an obvious fact that we all lie but I am not a habitual liar. ;(
      I’ve lied to protect someone but never just for the heck of it. A lie is a lie this I know and we can’t bet around the fact that we all lie..but there are some folks who can’t go one day without telling a white lie let alone big juicy lies.


    • Queen I was one of those guys that told lies all the time. But guess a what with the help of a good woman and the church of god I have been saved from telling lies that GOD


  2. A real man loves his woman more than he loves hisself. Ladies if your man doesn’t say your his world his A,B,C plan he’s not crazy in love with you. How many men have told there ladies that? Ladies have a man ever told you this?


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