Monthly Archives: February 2014

Random Thoughts 2/11/14

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• Start your day off knowing that you are a perfect imperfect being that will always be work in progress. A perfect person does not exist.

• It sickens me when people try to poke holes in someone’s character when in fact they need to concentrate on “self”.

• Just because you have a group of idiots cheering you on does not mean you are right…it’s just a bunch of idiots rooting for you to become more of an idiot.

• A person that thinks they are smarter than everyone else has not learned enough to know that gaining knowledge starts from the womb and ends at the tomb.

• What most people need to understand is that when you speak badly about someone whether directly or indirectly you appear to be much worse than the person you are speaking badly about.

• It’s even worse when people try to force their beliefs on others when everyone has a right to feel a certain way about life. However; neither your views nor theirs is incorrect since you can’t tell someone how to feel.

• Stop assuming things when you have no idea what the heck you are talking about.

• Sometimes silence is golden; Listen more and speak less.

• The person who tells you how imperfect you are because they believe they are perfect or more perfect than you are is sick in the head. Tell them to go look in the mirror first…You answer to a higher power.

• If you aren’t well versed on any topic it would be wise to keep quiet.

• Don’t let your past dictate your future or make you a bitter person.

It’s Not Ok (In MY World)

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“I” this has nothing to do with “YOU”…Please by all means do YOU.

In my world, having personally experienced this…it is not ok to stay in a relationship with a man for several years and not be married.
In this day and time marriage is a big fat joke! So maybe that’s why the divorce rate is so high who knows? I would hope that the man I marry will respect the vows and be a God-Fearing man.

Tables Turned: Let’s say that Patrice is the man what would she do? Well, if I knew I had no intentions on marrying a female she would know giving her a “choice’. I would never shack up with her and we would have separate living arrangements until I put a ring on her finger and a wedding date is set.
I believe that two people really don’t get to know each other unless they live together but why bother if you don’t plan on getting married? Just get a roommate and split the rent/mortgage.

As a woman, I am upfront and frank and would hope being a man would not make a difference.
If you are totally fine with shacking up with NO plans of marriage than go for it…I am not fine with the idea and will never ever do it again UNLESS there is a future.
If I am not good enough to be your wife you cannot get into my cookie jar. Don’t make promises or keep telling me that “one day you will be wife” then 10 years have gone by and we still aren’t married
Might as well date who we want then my chances of finding my future husband is more realistic if he wants to play the waiting game. Two years and you are through…that is it and that is all.

DISCLAIMER
***Remember to search your own soul for specific answers***
I give advice based on my personal experiences…
I sincerely thank everyone for reading my blog and sharing your views on life.
All of my posts are personal lessons I’ve learned through my “personal” walk and life experiences.
The purpose of my blog is to encourage others and in no way will I ever directly tell anyone to do anything because the decision is yours and yours alone.
I advise this does not mean you make a decision based solely on what is communicated to you via my blog. My responses are based on “What I would do” if I were you; based on my personal experiences.
In the end, the decision is totally yours and something you will have to live with not me. If someone told you to jump off the Brooklyn Bridge, would you? If so, stop reading my blog. Thank you!

Straight from my Heart, Patrice

Deception

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Do we actually see the reality of everything around us or do we hide behind the idea of what we want our relationship to be?

We go along in life with blinders on and dare someone from the outside looking in to tell us the hard truth.

What do you know? You are just jealous? In some cases you may be right but still take in account what fools say as well.

My favorite quote is “Things are NOT as they seem”. You better believe that too.
There are times our imagination runs away with us and we accuse our partners of doing things they never did.

Then you have instances that your gut tells you “something is just not right”…you can’t put your finger on it but you can feel it in your bones.

Intuition is how we survive but you mustn’t ignore it even when you may be far-fetched.

Keep your eyes open and slowly give your heart away don’t dive in head first. Get to know a person no matter what people say about it taking years to really know someone.

It depends on how open and honest you both are that will allow you to learn about each other.

It’s scary out here and you can’t spend your entire life with your guards up never trusting again. But you can proceed with caution and pay attention to the RED FLAGS!

Stalker Alert…

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I can’t believe a stalker is reading my blog! I have been stalked since 2011…this will stop this year I promise! Stop sending me messages via my blog…Cease and Desist all communcation.

There is this clinically insane train wreck individual who is harassing me and digging up my past as if that will damage my future. This crazy person is sending me emails threatening to turn my world upside down. Yep, it’s someone who knows me personally or knows someone that knows me very well.

But when they hacked my account there was far too much information I left never thinking anyone would hack my account. You are hateful and miserable with your LIFE!

Told TW that the truth has to be revealed because of the love we share still. WOW!

You are NOT in control of my destiny God is so go away you little devil helper!
This dummy is reading my blog and texting TW sending him emails and pictures that they got from my email they hacked in 2011.

I am 43 years-old and have slept with more than one man in my lifetime so what?

Whoever it is you will be caught and when you are you will be behind bars with a permanent criminal record. I will press charges to the fullest you better believe that buddy You think you are slick using different IP addresses…smh…don’t worry it’s a matter of time now you are under my radar. Justice will be served so keep it coming dig a big black hole for yourself.

Whatever you have on me is all that you have then you are finished! I don’t care about what I did in my past because that is exactly what it is my PAST.

You are so stupid and pathetic with your bored sick in the head rotten soul.
It’s a good thing at my age I could care less what people think about me…

You are more of an annoyance than anything. Kind of like a gnat in the summer time buzzing around my ear.

Who Do You Love More?

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We all must have standards…That goes for both Men and Women.

In this life we don’t honestly get second chances we just waste our time and hope for a better future and/or outcome.

I refuse to put my time into anything that has no return.

Fear keeps you from finding true happiness.

Most people don’t take marriage seriously and it is rather frightening. How you start a marriage is how it will end.

You settle because you don’t think you are good enough to find someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved.

Don’t lose yourself in a relationship to the point that you neglect yourself only to find out later that the same sacrifices you made will not be reciprocated.

I know people personally; that knew their partner was cheating on them and still stayed. I don’t know if that’s being strong or weak…I don’t know if that is just stupid or they really love the other person more than they love themselves.

We all lie…but when you become an habitual liar it damages trust beyond repair. We all lie but when you lie to someone you are supposed to love that is NOT the same thing.

I really don’t know and I won’t judge them; I just can’t tolerate the same things others do because I love myself too much. Is it wrong to love yourself more?

I don’t know about you but I love myself more…

Straight from the Heart, Patrice
“You Can’t Tell Me How to Feel”

DISCLAIMER
***Remember to search your own soul for specific answers.***
I give advice based on my personal experiences…
I sincerely thank everyone for reading my blog and sharing your views on life.
All of my posts are personal lessons I’ve learned through my “personal” walk and life experiences.
The purpose of my blog is to encourage others and in no way will I ever directly tell anyone to do anything because the decision is yours and yours alone.
I advise this does not mean you make a decision based solely on what is communicated to you via my blog. My responses are based on “What I would do” if I were you; based on my personal experiences.
In the end, the decision is totally yours and something you will have to live with not me. If someone told you to jump off the Brooklyn Bridge, would you? If so, stop reading my blog. Thank you!
Straight from my Heart, Patrice

Disclaimer

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***Remember to search your own soul for specific answers.
I sincerely thank everyone for reading my blog and sharing your views on life.
All of my posts are personal lessons I’ve learned through my “personal” walk and life experiences.
The purpose of my blog is to encourage others and in no way will I ever directly tell anyone to do anything because the decision is yours and yours alone.
I advise this does not mean you make a decision based solely on what is communicated to you via my blog. My responses are based on “What I would do” if I were you; based on my personal experiences.
In the end, the decision is totally yours and something you will have to live with not me. If someone told you to jump off the Brooklyn Bridge, would you? If so, stop reading my blog. Thank you!
Straight from my Heart, Patrice

Question from GDMVM

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How would you handle this situation? Have this female coworker who, at times, gives me the impression that she likes me and wants me to do her but always try to play it off by saying something crass and negative in her own joking way when coworkers call her out by telling her that they think she really likes me.
We joke around with each other and I’ve befriended by treating her to lunch..well giving her lunch money..never going out to lunch with her. I’ve also listened to her tell me stories about this guy she’s involved with..tells me she think he’s one of those down low brothers because he likes for her to play with his a** when their having sex..don’t know to what degree he like for her to play with his a**..she won’t say.
She’s a cute girl but I’m not physically turned on by her and because of that I don’t flirt with her or come on to her..her ego is bruised. I think she thinks I’m gay. She’s also nosey and sneaky and cunning. I don’t really trust her as far as I can throw her. Friday she came down to our dept. She was on joke time. We were the only two in the dept and we were talk and joking. Then a few other guys came into the room with us. She starts making this comment tell the guys that she thinks I’m a..butt boy. Of course the guys all laughed. I told her that she was crazy and that I didn’t have time to comment on foolish statements. I left the group and went to do my work. As I was working in the next cubical, she starts calling me butt boy again while the guys laugh and while I’m on the phone. After I hung up the phone, I was ready to dig into her a** because she was being very cunning by throwing out a derogatory accusation to my coworkers about me..knowing how office rumors spread. That was her main intent. I kept my mouth shut this time but let her say it again she’ll regret it..believe me!