Can you want something so much that the universe makes sure you never receive it?
It’s not exactly what we want that takes precedence it is what we need that is far more beneficial to our overall well-being. We always want what we can’t have or what’s not good for us. I am a firm believer that you should not have to work hard to make a relationship work.
Either it works or it doesn’t… there isn’t any in-between. When you have one person pulling in a different direction while you relentlessly try to pull them back towards you; it becomes mentally exhausting.
Love should come effortlessly. This is my humble opinion.