Most folks would say that when a person says that “sex is overrated” usually isn’t getting any or never had mind blowing sex.
Well, that is not the case here and I am telling you that sex is in fact overrated! My Aunt used to always say “after the nut; then what?”

I understand exactly what she means now more than ever and yes it took a situation to occur for me to realize that sex should not be #1 on my list of things I desire in a man.
Don’t get me wrong, he must be able to deliver orgasms and I don’t care how it’s done just get it done!

Sex is supposed to be intimate and foreplay should start the moment you look into each other’s eyes and while you are thinking of them during your work day.
Touching, light kisses and cuddling just sets the mood. When you actually love the person and you get along over 90% of the time makes not sex but lovemaking beautiful.
I personally don’t want sex but want my man to make love to me which is on an entirely different level.

Anyone can have sex doesn’t matter if it’s good or bad it’s just SEX! Lovemaking is always excellent (Yes Indeed!) because this is the moment you and your mate become one to express how much you love each other 🙂 Of course it does not stop there…

The method of comparison will always bring unwanted issues into any relationship that has a good future. It’s totally mental and yes maybe Bobby Joe can work the middle a little better than Sammy Joe but who will be there after sex to love, respect, cherish, support you mentally and respect you.

Can you have both? Yes, you can but these days most folks both MEN and WOMEN just want a good screw anyway and anyhow they can get it and could care less about anything else.
Always… keep it simple never involving others. This will allow you to focus on the one who really loves you not those who just want to get their rocks off.
Just when you think you have something better it turns out to be a dud in a major way.

When you thought you were going from bad to better you actually went from GREAT to Horrific!

When the good outweighs the bad STAY where you are!!! It’s a jungle out here…