He’s not weak, lame, pressed or stupid…

He’s a REAL MAN who knows what he wants and knows what he really has in a woman.
He’s never called me out of my name,yelled, struck or raised his voice at me. He has NEVER disrespected me. WTF was I thinking?!

Sometimes we don’t realize what we had until you find out that what you thought you had is some garbage. Things are not always what they seem and folks can pretend to be everything you want just long enough to bait you in. There is a reason why some folks are single forever and it’s not always by choice.

I consider myself blessed to have experienced the other side which made me realize that what I had was rare to find! Yes, I was angry and acted out like a spoiled immature adolescent because he did not ask for my hand in marriage after so many years. I am so far from perfect just as many of us are but to live and learn is a true blessing.

When I think about what I put him through who could perform under such stressful conditions! He had to be doing something right for me to stay with him for 6 years!!!

I had a serious relapse and have no idea what came over me. Never again! There are some serious bums out here that are mentally insane. We both were wrong and accept the role we played in our separation and now realize that there is nothing or no one out there for us.

I am willing to do everything in my power to make us work. He is willing to let the past stay there and not allowing anyone to come between us. We are moving forward never looking back.

Thank God for second chances…The best advice comes from those who have actually experienced the fire and lived through it.

5 thoughts on “He’s not weak, lame, pressed or stupid…

  1. Congratulations!!!! Wonderful to hear that!!!! I don’t think you were. I think you wanted something more and deserved it. 6 years is a long time, and when to people love and cherish one like you both did, there should be that next step of accountability and commitment to one another.


    • I’ll keep you posted it’s coming soon! He wanted to get married ASAP!
      But I need 12 months to clear my mind while we start to date again.
      I am angry and still not happy over the 6 year wait. Thanks for your wonderful comments too!!! 🙂


      • Awesome!!!! I feel ya!!!! I guarantee he recognized what lost quickly!!! Sometimes it take separation to open both parties eyes!!! If no change was seen then that’s when you know they aren’t ready. Much love ;-))!!!


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