People will tell you about their past and some of what they tell you will be rather disturbing.
Being supportive to an individual you care about is certainly admirable.
On the other hand; you can’t allow them to drag you into rut loosing yourself in the process.
The most important aspect of it all is that what they tell you will explain why they have behavioral issues amongst a host of other character defects.
Only the strong are resilient enough to not allow the past hurts destroy future happiness.
You can’t fix a person who doesn’t want to let go of the pains of the past. Matter of fact you can’t fix anyone but “YOU”.
Allow the healing process to begin by crying, screaming to the top of your lungs or whatever works for you that is positive and won’t hurt anyone else.
Life is too precious and short to be unhappy. Sometimes we need to really think about our actions before actually taking that plunge that could alter our entire course forever.
You finally find the RIGHT person then you look for every flaw when they have so much good in them.
We act off impulse or emotions rather than using our mental capacity to weigh the pros against the cons.
Consequently, we fall prey to unhealthy relationships that we knew would never work.