We always say “where are the good ones?”

But when we get a good person in our life we rip them into tiny pieces dissecting all their flaws.

The problem is not with them it’s with you being afraid of being hurt.
You see yourself falling for them or maybe you have already fallen.

Next every excuse in the book is conjured up on reasons why you shouldn’t stay. Somehow you tell yourself that settling isn’t an option when in fact the person is ideal for you in many ways.

Finding the perfect mate is nearly impossible compromising within reason is how you make the two of you being together “perfect”.

If a person goes over and beyond to prove their love for you how could you opt for a person who won’t give you the time of day?

Then we wonder why the end result is disastrous as we watch our life pass by each day wondering why our true love never knocked on the door.

They knocked but you were too busy letting the person you have no future with in the back door.

I’ve seen in so many men’s eyes the desire to have a woman to love, cherish and give them everything within their power but they give the wrong woman a chance.

Giving my all and caring for the wrong man isn’t something new to me. I’ve been down that road and it’s an empty feeling that can’t be put into words.

All you can identify is the hurt and disappoint of time lost.

I can’t stress enough how important it is to sit in a quiet room to reflect on your life. Ask yourself why do you keep choosing the wrong person or why do you allow yourself to be chosen by the wrong person who means you no good.

We must use common sense over lustful emotions moreover the hope of what will be that will never come to pass.

Stop trying to love a person that will never love you back! Learn to love someone that loves you unconditionally.

You are not settling you are doing what makes perfect sense.

Otherwise you might as well get in a car with no gas and wait for it start.
You can’t get out and push it because you have your whole life ahead of you.

Dead weight…get rid of it.
Go with the one that loves you.
Get in the car full of gas and push the pedal to the metal.