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17. Russian Federation
21. United Arab Emirates
22. United Kingdom
23. United States Of America (Of Course)
25. Greece!!!! 7/18/14
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Sometimes I believe that you can overthink not just situations but LIFE itself…Here comes the worry monster and it just gobbles up all your happiness.
Lately, I have also noticed that people in general focus on the things they have absolutely no power over more often than not.
The things we can change we neglect to actually take action with procrastination being the devil…instead we focus on things that have already happened that we can’t reverse rather than the things we have the power to change.
I am totally guilty of worrying about things that will be no matter how much I may wish or hope it away.
My focus is being proactive not reactive to LIFE…this is easier said than done without a doubt.
Naturally, there are some situations that will only allow you to be reactive but this only means you weren’t proactive.
If someone slaps you in the face more than likely you saw it coming but instead of removing yourself from harm’s way (proactive) you stay and get slapped therefore you return the favor (reactive).
Life is the same way…but we chose to put the blinders on then look at adversity like a deer’s eyes illuminated by blinding headlights.
None of us have a crystal ball to help us along the way however there are red flags and major indicators that we overlook because we don’t want to accept the possible outcome.
Instead of dwelling on things we can’t change let’s focus on what’s next and the things we can change!
You will soon find that your stress level will be almost non-existent….Life is too short to get stuck in a rut we have to keep it moving. People will not only see “happy” on your face they will smell it a mile away and hate you for it….because they too want to be happy just like you!
This goes for both sexes…
If you have a person that loves you and wants to spend the rest of their life with you please make sure you understand that is rare these days.
They don’t have to be perfect but perfect for you! If you make each other happy, love, respect and appreciate what you have that’s worth more than gold…
That’s exactly why you shouldn’t date anyone you don’t see yourself having a future with. You both must want the same thing or it’s a waste of LIFE!
Feelings change when the person was indecisive to begin with and is an indication of immaturity. Unless, someone did something horrible to make your feelings change.
Most of us know what we need but sometimes there are outside interferences such as your past that will disrupt your future if you allow it.
Naturally, there are other factors that I didn’t mention but you get the idea…
You never want to look back and say “I made a huge mistake letting her/him go”
Sometimes we push the very person that loves us like no other person will in this lifetime being stupid and blind.
That very person will be there to take care of you when you grow old or become ill whereas the person you dumped your true love for will throw your arse in a old folks home faster than you can blink.
This old saying rings true: “THE GRASS ISN’T ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE”