You will never realize how important it is to know who you are.
Accept that you aren’t perfect and you will make mistakes…Be aware of your idiosyncrasies never be in denial.
There should be nothing about you that someone else needs to tell you that needs to be corrected.
You are not a child and should have self- awareness at this stage in your life.
Someone will come along and try to bulldoze right through your self esteem if you aren’t aware!
Thank them for bringing your flaws to your attention.
Then ask them is there anything good you see me?
Their response will tell you everything you need to know.
If all a person can see is bad in you; tell them to first look in the mirror at their distorted image of perfection.