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I’ve noticed that so many women remain single because they have a “TYPE” of man they will only consider. There is nothing wrong with having standards when it comes to a man. However; try to make those standards less physical.

I’ll have to be honest, my husband was not what I considered my type.
I wanted a man that was 6 5″, Rock solid body, darn near wealthy, dark chocolate just to name some…my LUST was a long list. Those “types” treated me as if I meant nothing to them…I was a piece of meat.

They dogged me OUT!!! Every woman wanted them, he knew it and did not fear the LORD.

This is not the case with all men fitting the physical description. But the men I ran across were the worse πŸ˜‘πŸ˜πŸ™„

I had to be more realistic and focus on how a man treated me. What they had to offer and how they looked was less important.

Nobody wants to marry a bum….I get that. We all want an attractive face to look at but I prefer a beautiful spirit over it all.

My husband is darling and very handsome which is a plus but wasn’t a must.

Sometimes you have to cultivate your man! Plant seeds and support him….we demand and expect things that are not important.

Get back to the basics and build together, work out together and make your dreams a reality together!


There are plenty of folks that love the concept of marriage….

Those who are determined to never get married for various reasons understand that marriage is a serious commitment.

If you marry the wrong person your life will be a living hell. Get married for all the right reasons and love being one of those….not πŸ’ΈπŸ’΅πŸ’°money…or because you have hot passionate sex.

Marry your best friend and if you’re not best friends work on cultivating a friendship first.

I strongly believe the type of love that allows you to remain happily married is love that comes after friendship.