The single life entitles you to tell your partner to have several seats and mind their business when it comes to your text and call log.
I will strongly suggest that if marriage is in the future that you start taking out the trash.
Most people these days can establish an imaginary full-blown relationship through text messaging.
A red flag that things are going south in your relationship is change in pattern. The text begins to dwindle from your boo and then come to a complete halt and the calls too!
When you ask for your honey’s cell phone and they refuse what are your first thoughts? What are they hiding? Do you feel like you are infringing on their right to privacy?
I truly believe that everyone has a right to a certain level of privacy.
However, when you become one there should no longer be secrets. In addition, you should not exhibit any behavior that would allow your spouse to feel insecure. Whatever it takes to make them feel secure again and loved should be done without hesitation if you truly love them. People usually love what you can do for them and they were never in love with the essence of you.
Once the foundation of trust is cracked you have no choice but to rebuild or let it go!
The day you tell your honey bunny that you are willing to risk your relationship before you allow access to your phone phone proves that you have something to hide. It also proves that it’s all about you and you do to not care about their feelings.
When you discover pictures of strangers in his/her phone and see “hey baby” text come through by chance not really looking for anything but heard the notification and glanced is enough to make you curious. No women or man has the right to use endearing terms like “hey baby” unless they gave them a reason to feel comfortable.
With every lie, it chips away at the love you once felt and shreds the trust in a million pieces scattering to the wind. After a while you become cold and shelter your heart from the hurt and lies. You once begged and pleaded for answers and never received a response. This would make anyone feel invisible.
There is so much about love that many will never begin to comprehend. Love ❤️ begins with verbal communication not text and trust.