People tend to ask themselves why individuals change towards them or why they are suddenly treated differently.
The answer to your question is in the mirror you stand in front of every morning hardly making eye contact with the reflection to the windows to your soul that scream out you have changed!
When you realize you are repeating the same behavior/actions that lead you to the same road that results in pain time to change.
Many of our issues start within we just need to take responsibility for the role we play.
However, that change could be good allowing those who meant you no good to retreat.
That’s the whole idea …you must know when that change in you is for the best just open your eyes so you can see the big picture.